being real!

As we get to the close of the year, it is very important for us to take inventory on what has blessed us during this year and what has been a curse to our lives. I know it sounds harsh to use such words, but the reality of it my friend, it that anyone who has not been a blessing to you has been in the dog gone way.

One thing that is importnat is to look at who is in your life, and make the necessary chnges to move forward. sometimes this may involve getting rid. of people that have been in your life that have been draining your postive enegery. if you continue to tolerate the mess that is a clear indicator that you my dear are not ready for change.

You have no right to complain about what you allow or you give permission to operate in your life that is contrary to your goals. if you permit it then shut up about it. If you allow people to walk over you don't pray about the people hurting you to change, you need to change. Alot of things that we brood over we have the power within ourselves to make our life better.

I remember a lady came to me and asked me to pray with her to lose weight I told her I will not because what you need is action. not prayer! I know that sounds shocking but I was standing on a bibical prinicple found in the book ok James. Faith without works is dead.!!!!! Show me your faith and I will show you my works!!!.

I told the sister when you really get tired then change will come, when the fat hanging on your body bothers you enough you will get up and do something about it. That is just being real!!!

when you get tired of something you will get strength and wisdom on how to get things in order, you will take charge and get your life back. If you are not running your life someone or something will run it for you. And don't get mad at the direction you are going in if you will not take charge of your own life.

If you are still whinning about the problem you my friend right now are addicted to the drama of your life. When you have people in your life that will tell you the truth and you oppose the truth and continue in folly, you are telling yourself that you (I) am not worth the effort to make my life better.
And you wonder why the saga contiunes and you life is one soap opera scene after another it is because you are drawn to the gossip of people talking about you in a negative matter, and if things were going good you will find a way to sabotage. becuase you are sending a signal that you are not ready for change. when you get tired you will move action comes right behind being fed up.

Have you ever had a friend who was dating a loser when the person got tired the person moved out or moved on. or bought closure to that realtionship. If there is no movement toward chnage you are not tired yet

and that is being real!!!!

Love lady Dee