Yeah i"m being up front and in your face what are you going to do with the the life you are living are you going to just waste it, by making excuses or are you going to do something about it.
Please remember that you have only one life to live you don't get a second chance to make up for the flop you made of your life the first time.. That's how precious life is you pnly get one shot so if you mess it up there is nobody to blame but yourself...
So what is it I'm asking of you
1. take a look at your life, and challenge yourself see what you can get rid off, if it is toxic people, friendships, time killers, dream killers... Get rid of anything that is working against your goal..
2. set aside time for you, I can bet my dollar that you have been living your life for everyone else besides yourself.. Let go of the dead weight and know that you have the right to live your life to the fullest that God has for you.. It may sound like yeah I have heard that all before, but you have not listen you heard, you were sent to the earth with a purpose to live out loud and dream your dream...
3. Please know that you are special that you are one of a kind there will never be another you many copy cats but not another you. Have you really grasp that thought that there will be another person like you.. Wow that is a heavy thought and it should be a reminder of how special you are and why you should do all that ois in your heart to do... because no one will ever be able to master you trade like you...
4. throw the fear away, hey you have been through hell and back. You have lost a job, home spouse, friends had to literally start all over.. So what in the world do you have to fear nothing you have been through the worst... and now it is time to live the past is behind you and it is time for your life to begin...
5. take a chance make a move toward your goal, go enroll in the class, pay for the studio and cut your demo, stop talking about what you are going do, the world is waiting to know you in a bbig way... Listen if you have been singing in the mirror with your hair brush ever since you were twelve, chances are you were born to sing (hint, hint,) If what you really want to do with your life has not change... no matter what line of work you are doing then that is what you should be doing with your life...
love lady dee
Sunday, March 22, 2009
Wednesday, March 18, 2009
yes it is about me!!!
I know that sounds like a hard phrase to say but when is that time going to come for you... Listen you get up early to get the kids off to school, and walk the family dog, and make sure that everyone is straight for their day before you tackle your eight hours on your job...
only to come home eight and half hours later to face the mayhem of shutting the day.. so the questions stills remains when is it you time!!!!!!
I know there are only 24 hours int he day but you have to learn to slice a piece of time for yourself... when you can juggle your schedule to make time for everyone do you know what signal you are sending to other people.???
Iam a door mat please walk over me, I know that it's sound crude, look at the people that you know in your life that put other people before themselves on a consistent basis..
look at how they carry themselves, how there apperance is, their posture, their confindence level, it may be alright it is not the best...
I am not talking about humanintaruim work here I am talking about checking the locator button that will not take the time out for you. my dear friend there is no crime taking the phone off the hook and having a bubble bath trust me the world will still turn while you are in the tub..
when you make a date with yourself you will feel your mind change bout how you view yourself.
tips on how to make it work...
1. first look at schedule look at what you daily, look at the things that have to be done, and things you can let go completely or things that you can delegate to others.. and began to set your week up according to the adjustments that you need to make.. If you have a family let the people that you live with know that you will be making changes in the schedule that will relfect the needed me time that yiur so richly deserve. Let them know that they should not worry this refresher time will allow you to serve your family better
2. after you change your schedule around find a day and a time slot that you can take of care you without any disturbances.
3. do something that you love, for me it is having a spa day at home whatever it is do make you feel good dothat very thing that makes youe feel special I need not to tell you you know what makes you smile so go ahead and indulge and enjoy!!!!!
4. make a routine to take of you when you do this you are a better service to others becuase you have taken the time to refill yourself
what you will not do is feel guilty about loving on you have you notice that the ones that take from you feel no gulit when the keep puting out requesting without ever thinking that you may be tired.. So why should you feel guilty about a much needed pamper session that you need..
If you have friends and you can schedule your pamper session together do I like I do with my girlfriends an have a waiting to exhale party
I supply the lite snacks and my home, i have friends each bring a item of choice the have pedicure nights, manicure, facials the works we all get time to laugh and talk and just enjoy being the creatures that we are... Just typing about makes me smile enjoy laugh love you and live out loud...
Love lady dee
only to come home eight and half hours later to face the mayhem of shutting the day.. so the questions stills remains when is it you time!!!!!!
I know there are only 24 hours int he day but you have to learn to slice a piece of time for yourself... when you can juggle your schedule to make time for everyone do you know what signal you are sending to other people.???
Iam a door mat please walk over me, I know that it's sound crude, look at the people that you know in your life that put other people before themselves on a consistent basis..
look at how they carry themselves, how there apperance is, their posture, their confindence level, it may be alright it is not the best...
I am not talking about humanintaruim work here I am talking about checking the locator button that will not take the time out for you. my dear friend there is no crime taking the phone off the hook and having a bubble bath trust me the world will still turn while you are in the tub..
when you make a date with yourself you will feel your mind change bout how you view yourself.
tips on how to make it work...
1. first look at schedule look at what you daily, look at the things that have to be done, and things you can let go completely or things that you can delegate to others.. and began to set your week up according to the adjustments that you need to make.. If you have a family let the people that you live with know that you will be making changes in the schedule that will relfect the needed me time that yiur so richly deserve. Let them know that they should not worry this refresher time will allow you to serve your family better
2. after you change your schedule around find a day and a time slot that you can take of care you without any disturbances.
3. do something that you love, for me it is having a spa day at home whatever it is do make you feel good dothat very thing that makes youe feel special I need not to tell you you know what makes you smile so go ahead and indulge and enjoy!!!!!
4. make a routine to take of you when you do this you are a better service to others becuase you have taken the time to refill yourself
what you will not do is feel guilty about loving on you have you notice that the ones that take from you feel no gulit when the keep puting out requesting without ever thinking that you may be tired.. So why should you feel guilty about a much needed pamper session that you need..
If you have friends and you can schedule your pamper session together do I like I do with my girlfriends an have a waiting to exhale party
I supply the lite snacks and my home, i have friends each bring a item of choice the have pedicure nights, manicure, facials the works we all get time to laugh and talk and just enjoy being the creatures that we are... Just typing about makes me smile enjoy laugh love you and live out loud...
Love lady dee
Tuesday, March 17, 2009
learn to let go!!!!!!!!!!
Sometimes the very thing that you are holding on to, is the very thing that God wants to tear you away from...
this cam be hard to keep in mind, we want so much to have the best in our life but this best coming to us will require have us to become active with doing some real life changes, that we may not at the time be ready to deal with..
so what do we do we look at out weight and we put off making changes unitl Monday because we want to start fresh....
But if we really serious about our weight the wait until Monday will literally drive you mad becuase there could be things that you can be doing now that make real changes in your life....
sometimes we are our worst devil in our lives it's not the fake friends or the haters those people will only empower if you use their aggression toward you the right way..
no one can stop you from doing what you want to do but you... Nobody can have the power to change your mind unless you let them.... If people can alter your thinking and make you think the way the want you to, my friend you have given people the power to do so...
I will tell you if real friends, love ones will never hurt you, real love will never front on you be fake, lie, steal, cheat, or degrade hit or make you feel less than who you are... Love is consistent when the times change... If you find yourself in a struggle wheter to stay in something or let it go.... Ask yourself this one question
Does it cause you pain??????? Then your answer is to let it go... Love will cause you to take risk yes, to believe when no one else dares to do so, but when you follow the path of love...
Love will never leave you ashamed of your choices.... So if whatever you are doing has you uneasy, uptight, on edge, then let it go.... Because whatever you permit in your life will only increase.....
Love lady dee
this cam be hard to keep in mind, we want so much to have the best in our life but this best coming to us will require have us to become active with doing some real life changes, that we may not at the time be ready to deal with..
so what do we do we look at out weight and we put off making changes unitl Monday because we want to start fresh....
But if we really serious about our weight the wait until Monday will literally drive you mad becuase there could be things that you can be doing now that make real changes in your life....
sometimes we are our worst devil in our lives it's not the fake friends or the haters those people will only empower if you use their aggression toward you the right way..
no one can stop you from doing what you want to do but you... Nobody can have the power to change your mind unless you let them.... If people can alter your thinking and make you think the way the want you to, my friend you have given people the power to do so...
I will tell you if real friends, love ones will never hurt you, real love will never front on you be fake, lie, steal, cheat, or degrade hit or make you feel less than who you are... Love is consistent when the times change... If you find yourself in a struggle wheter to stay in something or let it go.... Ask yourself this one question
Does it cause you pain??????? Then your answer is to let it go... Love will cause you to take risk yes, to believe when no one else dares to do so, but when you follow the path of love...
Love will never leave you ashamed of your choices.... So if whatever you are doing has you uneasy, uptight, on edge, then let it go.... Because whatever you permit in your life will only increase.....
Love lady dee
Sunday, March 15, 2009
change is powerful
this is something that we all have to face chnage! we know it has to be done, but we hate to do it. But this is the process of life, letting go of the old and embracing the new. For me personally it has been hard, but when I looked at my life and I saw that I was getting nowhere fast, and my life was headed down a broken path.
I had to change!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! change what my mind!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I had to reprogram my thinking and began to do some real thinking,,,
For example one of my problems was putting other people before me... that had to stop I had to get real and embrace the thought that no one should go first before me.. I had to vow that I will not put others before me...
It sounded selfish in the begining but i had to open my eyes and realize that the people in my life that were taken from me, couldn't care less how I was making it. So was I going to keep living my life on empty for the sake of others...
NO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
real love is being in love with you... If you have people in your life that are always taking from you and never giving anything . You need to get started of letting the mess out of your life go, your real friends will never be offended by the change your are making to improve your life
don't fear the process love you and let the mess go!!!!!!!!!!!!
love laydee
I had to change!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! change what my mind!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I had to reprogram my thinking and began to do some real thinking,,,
For example one of my problems was putting other people before me... that had to stop I had to get real and embrace the thought that no one should go first before me.. I had to vow that I will not put others before me...
It sounded selfish in the begining but i had to open my eyes and realize that the people in my life that were taken from me, couldn't care less how I was making it. So was I going to keep living my life on empty for the sake of others...
NO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
real love is being in love with you... If you have people in your life that are always taking from you and never giving anything . You need to get started of letting the mess out of your life go, your real friends will never be offended by the change your are making to improve your life
don't fear the process love you and let the mess go!!!!!!!!!!!!
love laydee
Thursday, March 12, 2009
take a look!
life at time can past you by, you may be wondering to yourself why are you here? why are you with this person? It is all about what you will tolerate in your life some people have more tolerance for one thing and none for another. it is all about what you expect out of your life.
if you are with soemone and the realtionship is going nowhere I mean it just is. It is time to look and deal with the reality of the blah in your life. remember nothing will not change if you will not confront it. It may be hard to do but it is needed if you want a better you in the end forget bout the other person for a while it is time to focus on you and what you want. I hate to say it but people do change and they do grow apart if you are not on the same level with goals for your life.
for example you may be a person that loves life, and dreams big, and is willing to take risk your partner on the other hand is stuck in their own life, with no goals, nothing to look forward to, eventually this will smother you, and wear you out because dead weight is hard to carry after a while. I hate to say it but then again I don't youy have to live life for you and if the other people in your life fall off. It was meant to be that way..
Love lady dee
if you are with soemone and the realtionship is going nowhere I mean it just is. It is time to look and deal with the reality of the blah in your life. remember nothing will not change if you will not confront it. It may be hard to do but it is needed if you want a better you in the end forget bout the other person for a while it is time to focus on you and what you want. I hate to say it but people do change and they do grow apart if you are not on the same level with goals for your life.
for example you may be a person that loves life, and dreams big, and is willing to take risk your partner on the other hand is stuck in their own life, with no goals, nothing to look forward to, eventually this will smother you, and wear you out because dead weight is hard to carry after a while. I hate to say it but then again I don't youy have to live life for you and if the other people in your life fall off. It was meant to be that way..
Love lady dee
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